This is something I wrote seasons ago. I can let it go, but it's something I'm a bit finicky about and it continues to happen often enough for me to notice. Like today. Short of ranting, let me re-post this edited version from my other web space.
A brother of mine gives the name Richard when he orders coffee at Starbucks. It's not his name -- in fact, far from it. Apart from privacy issues (like not wanting his name to be shouted out in a public place), he uses it because his name is often misspelled or mistaken for another "off" name. Richard is safe, I guess.